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PRIVACY ALERT

We are now going to talk about some things that are private.

Private means that you stop to think about when it is safe to talk about it.

And think about who you can talk to about it.

Private talk is the kind of thing that you say to a trusted person or a doctor or a nurse, but not to just anyone at school or work.

You try to talk quietly about it in a private place and not loudly in a public place.

national coalition for sexual health definition of sexual health: "Being sexually healthy means being able to enjoy a healthier body, a satisfying sexual life, positive relationships, and peace of mind."

What is sexual health?

It is taking charge of the health of the male or female parts of your body and how you use them.

Taking charge means you make safe and healthy choices about how you express your sexual feelings.
Taking charge means that you work with your doctors and healthcare team to keep your male or female body parts as healthy as possible.

Rights in Sexuality

The ARC and the American Association on IDD have written about sexuality in persons with IDD.

All have rights to friendships.
All have rights to love and be loved.
All have rights to privacy, dignity and respect.
All have rights to learn, as each is able, about their bodies, how sex works, and about values and duty to partners.
All have rights to start and end relationships as they choose.
All have rights to be protected from others who trick, force or hurt them.
All have rights to info, as each is able, about pregnancy and birth. Plus info on choices to avoid or get pregnant based on personal values.
All have rights to be protected from sterilization based on disability.

https://www.aaidd.org/news-policy/policy/position-statements/sexuality

Sexual health can feel complex.

Here are the parts of sexuality from YAI, New York

https://www.yai.org/knowledge/sexuality-rights-expression-and-advocacy-people-idd

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My body

My body

Anatomy

who i'm attracted to

Who I'm attracted to

Sexual Orientation

Who i am

Who I am

Gender Identity & Expression

How I care

How I care

Relationships

How i feel about myself

How I feel about myself

Body Image

what feels good

What feels good

Pleasure

my health and wellness

My health and wellness

Sexual and reproductive health

what i do

What I do

Sexual behavior and activity

Let's talk about these as the P's of sexual health. Check out each page.

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cartoon image of boy and girl going through puberty

Puberty

is the name for the changes in the body of girls and boys as they grow up.

cartoon man standing behind a fence in front of his house with the word Privacy

Privacy

respects personal business that you don't want to share with others.

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Partners

are two people involved with each other.

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Practices

are actions you take with your body and with your health.

cartoon image of a woman thinking about different sexual protection options

Protection

blocks risks of harm from sexual actions.

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Pregnancy

planning decides if or when you may want a baby.

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Past history

talks about past events of intimacy, harm, health testing and exams.

Other great websites for more info

https://amaze.org/ Learn about your body and relationships with fun, animated videos.

https://www.disabilitysexualitylab.com/ See blogs on using dating apps and podcasts about sexuality and disability in different countries.

https://vkc.vumc.org/healthybodies/

https://cdss.ca/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/CDSS-Mind-and-Body-English.pdf

https://teachingsexualhealth.ca/parents/information-by-age/differing-abilities/

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-

https://vkc.vumc.org/assets/files/resources/sexuality.pdf

https://ncil.org/resources/sex-ed-for-individuals-with-i-dd/

https://researchautism.org/self-advocates/sex-ed-for-self-advocates/

https://teenpregnancy.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/resource-files/Sex-Toolkit-Parents-Youth-IDD.pdf