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Our mind is an important part of our body.

Healthy habits include taking care of our mental and emotional health. Another way to describe mental health is having a healthy mind. A healthy mind helps you to think in a calm and focused way.

We all have things that stress us at times.  Stress can cause strong emotions, like sadness, worry or anger.  One example of a stress is having something important change in your life, like moving to a new home, or having someone you love go away.  Another type of stress is when things don’t go the way we want, like being late for an appointment or losing your keys. 

When we work on our mental health, we are more likely to be able to handle stresses better in our lives.  Just like there are exercises to do for your body, there are exercises you can do to keep your mind healthy. 

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Stress Relief Tips for Persons with Learning Disabilities

NOW, let's check ourselves.

How do you feel right now?

Practice answering this question.

Green = Great

Yellow = Good

Orange = Okay

Red = Not Good

 

If you pick any color other than green, maybe it means that it is a good time to check your own stress.

What do you look like when you are stressed out?

Each person can show their stress in their own way. Pick 1 or 2 things from this list that seem to be the best way to know that you are stressed.

  • Breathing hard or fast
  • Heart pounding
  • Getting sweaty
  • Feeling moody or nervous inside
  • Less talking
  • Keeping to yourself, away from others
  • Taking less care of your body and how you look
  • Eating less or eating more
  • Less energy or too much energy
  • Having less fun with activities that are usually fun
  • Trouble getting to sleep or sleeping all day

If you aren’t sure which answers to pick, ask a person you trust how you look or act when you are stressed.

Skills to de-stress - pick a few of these exercises to try. Practice a few times every day to help make a new habit. With practice, you will be able to use these exercises later when you are having a stressful day.

Tap to flip the cards.

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Stress ball

Squeeze the ball for 3 seconds.

Count 1, 2, 3.

Then let go.

Feel your hand relax and go loose.

Do this a few times.

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Favorite memory

Carry a favorite photo of a happy memory on your phone or in your wallet.

Look at the photo and think about that happy time for a few moments.

Remember what you did and how it felt.

Watch how your body relaxes when you are thinking happy thoughts.

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Music

Songs can calm you.

Pick 1-2 songs you like that can help you feel calm.

Music can also rev you up.

Pick 1-2 songs that fill you with energy.

Practice listening to your special songs when you need them.

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Breathing 4-7-8

Practice slow and easy breathing to help you feel calm using the numbers 4-7-8.

Close your eyes, sit in a relaxing position with your muscles loose.

Take a slow breath in counting to 4, hold that breath counting to 7, and then slowly blow the air back out counting to 8.

Do this 3 times slowly.

Then open your eyes.

Feel how your body is more relaxed from taking just 30 seconds to unwind.

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Pep talk

Write down a few words to cheer yourself and keep this list in your phone or your wallet. 

Read this to boost yourself when you need it. 

“You’ve got this!”  “You are fabulous!”  “You know you are ready!” “You are brave.”

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Walk in nature

Try taking a break outside in a green space. 

Take a short walk. 

When you are outside, notice the feel of the sun or the breeze. 

Listen for birds chirping.  Smell the air. Look at the sky.  Feel the touch of the grass or a flower. 

Try out all your senses. 

This type of exercise is called mindfulness. 

Bonus Tips!

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You can practice squeezing and relaxing other muscles too. 

Sit in a chair and lift both your legs straight out in front of you and hold them for 1, 2, 3, then let them relax on the floor again.

Feel your legs go loose. 

Notice the difference between squeeze and relax.

Try this video from Bridging the Gapp Newfoundland Labrador.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation Video

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You can use phone apps like Headspace or Calm to help you practice.

You can also try putting your hand over your heart when you take the deep breaths. 

Feel your hand move up and down as you breathe.

Use a pinwheel or blowing bubbles to help you focus on your breathing in and out.

Easy Deep Breathing Video

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Grounding activities help us use our senses.

They help you separate in the moment from stressful memories.

 

Try this video - 5,4,3,2,1 Grounded

From Kazzum Arts

5,4,3,2,1 Grounded Video

Connect with friends and family

1. Do things with others who are important to you.

Often this helps you feel safe and supported.

Having a circle of friends and family who understand you gives you a boost in life. 

Sometimes online support groups are also good. 

2. Pick hobbies you like and make time to do them.

What do you like? 

Draw, swim, read, run, do puzzles, garden, watch a movie or play a video game. 

Share with others who enjoy the same hobbies.

3. Care for an animal.

Pets can be very soothing.  

They often know what you need and stay close to support you. 

Spending time loving an animal can lower a person’s blood pressure. 

If you don’t have a pet, maybe you can volunteer with pets who need you. 

4. Get help from a professional.

Like your doctor, if your stress isn't helped with these healthy habits.

IF YOU NEED HELP NOW WITH YOUR STRESS, you can call 988

The 988 Lifeline network is available all day, every day in the United States.

It is free and private.

It doesn't matter what your problem is. If you need someone to lean on for emotional support, you can call.

People call to talk about lots of things. Some examples are loneliness, money worries, relationships, sexual identity, getting over abuse, depression, mental and physical illness and drug abuse.

Learn more about 988 Mental Health Lifeline

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CDC's Coping with Stress

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