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What is Quality of Life?

It is living your own best life.

It means you have the support you need and the chances you want.

It means you can be happy, healthy and take part in the world where you live.

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How do you get a good quality of life?

You may want to think about all the parts of your life.

You may want to have a plan. You can use the 6 F's.

They are Family, Fitness, Friends, Fun, Function and Future.

The CanChild team from Canada teaches about the 6F's.

  • Are you happy with your life? Are you proud? Are you hopeful?
    • Do you have dreams?
  • Are you worried about your life? Are you sad?
    • How do you feel? How can you work on building your dreams?

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Your best life is the best life for YOU

  • It is not the best life for your parent or your friends or anyone else.
  • And it is OK to be different from other people.

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My Day Game

Help Jeneka make some choices in her day.

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Some people talk about trying to be "NORMAL"

"Normal" can mean that you want to be like most other people.

But no two people are the same.

Every person is good at some things and not good at other things.

So maybe we should use a different word, "UNIQUE"

"Unique" means one of a kind.

Be the best you that you can be!

What are your strengths? Can you describe yourself with a few strengths from this list? 

If you need help, ask someone you trust to help.

Think about how your strengths help you get things done.

 BRAVE  HONEST   HARD WORKER   NEVER GIVE UP   FULL OF ENERGY
 KIND   LOVING  WATCHFUL  GOOD WITH PEOPLE   FULL OF JOY  
 FAIR   A LEADER  A TEAM PLAYER  A GOOD LISTENER   OPEN TO IDEAS
 FORGIVING  HUMBLE  FOLLOW RULES  THINK IT THROUGH   GIVE SPACE TO OTHERS 
 GRATEFUL  HOPEFUL   FUNNY   SPIRITUAL   LOVER OF BEAUTY

 

Adapted from Peterson and Seligman- VIA Classification of Character Strengths


Now that you made a list of your strengths. How can you tell others about you?

Here's a podcast that shows how to talk about yourself to others:

Explore more about the 6 F's on our website:

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Fitness

Fitness keeps your body working at its best.

It looks at the idea of health, and not just the treatment of illness or disability.

If we keep fit, our body is better able to do all the things we want.

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Function

Function refers to what people do, what their role or job is.

We need to see persons with disabilities as more than a body with limits.

Children bloom when they play and learn at school.

Adults thrive in working and building their own lives.

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Family

Family is the word to describe a source of support.

Whoever we call family are those who can be our home base.

We need each other and depend on each other.

We are “interdependent”.

We help and hug each other.

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Fun

Fun is doing things you enjoy.

Make time to do things you enjoy, laugh, try new things, relax.

These are all examples of finding fun in life.

Fun helps decrease stress.

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Friends

Friends are the bonds that matter in life.

There are many ways to be social.

Some people need more bonds and others need less.

But we do know that people who are connected to others seem to have healthier lives.

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Future

Future goals and dreams are possible and important for each of us.

Where do you want to be? What do you want to do? 

THINK, PLAN, DO* is a model to take control of your future.

To direct your life, first THINK about what you want, then PLAN how to get it, and then DO the steps one by one that will get you there.

Extra info from CanChild-

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F words in Childhood Disability

Click on the arrow to visit CanChild's website and learn more about the F words in Childhood Disability.